D & Candy V #8: Pronouns and Generalized Gender Fuckery

From a warehouse basement on the wrong side of the tracks, D and Candy V dive deep into one of today’s most misunderstood topics: pronouns. Why has something so simple become so divisive? What does it mean when language shifts, and why do some people resist?

In this candid, funny, and thought-provoking conversation, we explore:

• The personal meaning and affirmation behind using someone’s chosen pronouns.

• How gender dysphoria and identity intersect with language.

• Why empathy, proximity, and lived experience matter in shaping understanding.

• The bigger questions of social acceptance, harm, and how societies evolve.

Whether you’ve wrestled with these conversations in your own circles, or you’re just curious to hear two friends pull apart the cultural tension around identity, language, and belonging—this episode is for you.

D & Candy V isn’t about easy answers. It’s about the messy, human, and sometimes hilarious ways we try to understand each other.

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